My Mom and Sister Ah Bong is in Heaven

My Mom and Sister Ah Bong is in Heaven

On many occasion, I was troubled by this uncertianty, uncertain if my mom is in Heaven. I know, I should have faith in what my sister had told me that my mom had accepted Lord Jesus on the day she passed away. I prayed to Lord Jesus to forgive me for this doubts. My mother died of cancer about 9 years ago. I was not at my mom’s bedside when she passed away, I was at work and being in stress. My youngest Sister Laura told me that she had accepted Lord Jesus Christ as savior and I wasn’t sure of that, so I prayed to Lord Jesus once sometime back, I think couple of months, to reveal if my mother is in heaven or not.
For me, this is a pressing concern because I wanted to testified to my father that my mother is heaven and he really need to receive salvation if he wants to be with my mother. Apology, I can’t remember the exact date. I think one day in mid Feb 2009, Our Lord Jesus allow the Angels, once again to brought me to heaven, this time, the backyard of a mansion. The angel, (I see neither the face nor body) introduced me to a pretty young lady, I think she must be 27 year old. (I had forgotten what was the name mentioned to me). She held my left hand and brought me into the chicken coop.
She wore nice dress in bright green, looks very elegant on her. This reminds me of the olden days when we use to have this same things. The door was made of chicken coop wire mesh on wooden flame. I was in transformed body, in my youth, younger then her. Then she latches the door behind me. I felt very close to her like someone I knew; she resembles my eldest Sister and 2nd Sister. Distinctively, she has thicker lips (even upper and lower) that gave a broader sweet smile. The ground was of dry solid light brown soil but it is so clean that I could take off my pair of shoes and walk on it. No Chicken or duck droppings can be found on the ground. The air is still, no bad smells. Then, she leads me past two fruit trees and went to the 3rd one, she stretched her pair of hands into the leaves and plucked a purple fruit that looks like egg plant, three fists size. And, she happily hugged this purple fruit in her left arm and said to me “Come, I want to bring you to meet someone.”
My heart was beating faster a little bit because I felt that she was bringing me to someone very close to me, like my wife. Was she my wife? So we walk past the same 2 fruit trees (all are not very tall, about 2 times my height) and then turn right. Then, a woman stopped tending to the other fruit Tree and turn around. “Chim Mah!” I exclaimed. (We called her Chim Mah, my mother. In Hokkien, Chim Mah means Auntie. Those day, people don’t want the addressing to be confused, today I still called my father “Dee Chay” meaning 2nd Uncle) This is my mom before she was diagnosed with cancer in the early 50. She looked the way she was while being healthy. I was very happy to see my mother. She was smiling happily, unlike those days she suffered going through all the Chemotherapy.
(Addon contribution by Jean, 5th sister). At that time when she had this ailment, mom had a very strong will to live although she was in great pain and had told Jean that she wanted to be with all the children, grandchildren and she wanted to see her get married. Mom received salvation just two days before our Lord took her away. Jean had been cutting my mom’s hair once every three weeks. She teared in the memory of cutting mom’s hair as she could recalled that her hair felt lifeless, dry and coarse. She was very glad that she was able to gave her hair cut on Thursday so that she looked very neat, then following Saturday, she passed away. I think mom purposely gave up the will to live because she don’t want all of us to continue suffering the financial hardship, probably aware that we are struggling to meet this high cost of cancer treatment.
(Added note 090909) By the mercy and grace of Lord Jesus, my mom was taken to heaven with him that day to relieve hers and everybody’s suffering, 27th Oct 1999. Heaven is an awesome place, it was so clean, no sickness and the daylight was just nice, not too warm. Same feeling as when I was brought to the back garden of Heaven where there is prairie of grass. (The Place of Sanctuary) The same place that King David had visited as mentioned in Psalm. We didn’t talk much but happily look at each other, enjoying each others’ company. Then all 3 of us walked out of the chicken coop.
Closing the door behind and both of them held each other hand and signaled to me that they want to cook a meal. Then, it is time for me to go and I woke up. I was telling myself that I wished to stayed with my mom and sister forever, it was so peaceful and nice but Lord Jesus won’t allow me because there are much work to do in this world.

On 22/3/2009 after Church Service, I visited my father in Ang Mo Kio at around 2pm. My father is now age 82 and is still actively teaching singing in Community Centre. I asked him if he remembered my sister who died during World War 2? He said
“Her name is Ah Bong, during those days giving away and taking in children is very common. Because my cousin in Malaysia does not have children so my mother suggested that I gave this daughter away to them afterall I already have 3 daughters. Ah Bong rank number 4 in our family.” Ah Bong? This name does rings a bell in my mind. It is in fact, the name mentioned to me by the Angel and I forgotten when I woked up. My father continues. “During those days where are under Malaysia rule, we could travel in and out of Malaysia Freely. They stayed in Johore Bahru. My father said that this child given to them actually caused them to have quarrels very often. He did not know why. Sometimes if both couple have to work, they have to pay neighbor $10 to look after them. Those day $10 is a lot of money. Then, they cannot bear anymore and decided to return Ah Bong to me; I cannot reject them since she is my own daughter, right? Ah Bong was in very bad health during that time. One day when we fed her milk she passes out milk, her stomach could not digest. Then she had high fever, brought her to Tan Tock Seng Hospital for treatment. Then, she recovered for 3 days and then relapsed into high fever and pass away.” I asked my father “What was her age at that time when she died?” My Father replied “I think she was 5 at that time.”
I remembered once, we have to visit another relative on the other side of Johore Bahru. The only way to reach there was by boat, there was no roadway. And I was told that we could not bring any cloth there. So my mother wrapped the yards of cloth around my waist and hid under my baggy T-shirt to smuggle in. The Malaysian custom officers in petrol boat came near us and left us after received cigarette and some money from my father. Things have not change much. Then, I share with him that Lord Jesus allowed me to go to Heaven to visit my Mother’s mansion at the backyard. Ah Bong was with her, she is a pretty lady at age 27. Mother look like as she was in the early 50 at that time when she was not diagnosed with cancer, enjoying traveling. She is in the pink of health. I told my father that in Heaven, there is no sickness and the Chicken Coop that I went in is very very clean, there is no flies, no Chicken or duck droppings. For many years, every time he talked about mother he would cry. But this time, he didn’t cry but managed a hidden smile. He said “Ah Bong is a very hardworking and obedience child. She helped to cut grass for some richer neighbors to earn money and even tired from work, she still happily helps out with household chore. She always asks how I am.” With that I told my father that both mother and sister Ah Bong is waiting for him in Heaven. They are not suffering anymore, no sickness but happily in Heaven. So, I encouraged him to accept Lord Jesus so that our whole family can be together to eternality. My father did not answer me. Then, I said to him that all this while Ah Bong had been taking care of us without us knowing. “Hopefully, Ah Bong can appear in your dream to speak to you.” I said to my father. Then I went home.

End notes:

Matt 6:20-21: “But lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, and where thieves do not break through nor steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” As I read this article again and again, tears of joy kept flowing. Wished that I could have spent longer time with my Mom and Sister. Perhaps have wonderful meal with them before I wake up.

The place of Sanctuary worship Lord Jesus Christ

Friends, this wonderful experience has been kept in my mind for the past, almost 30 years.
Back then, just as I was on the brink of not being able to take the test anymore,
our gracious Lord Jesus let his angels bring me to a place of sanctuary when my flesh has fallen into deep sleep.

Throughout the years, I will never forget this wonderful feeling of the peaceful flight, the serene environment, the love and great feeling of being away from the worldliness. For Our Lord had said in the Bible :-

1Cor 10:13:”There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.”

Act 15:10: “Now therefore why tempt ye God, to put a yoke upon the neck of the disciples, which neither our fathers nor we were able to bear?”

Here is the testimony of the great flight to Secret place of sanctuary. See note end for revelations.

The angels had lifted my soul into a journey

So peaceful, silent and smooth is the journey

My hair is being combed gentling through the thin air

There, we landed onto the land of the Prairie

I knew 2 Angels has been guiding me

I see not their faces nor body nor hear their voice

On the huge land, where there are no buildings

I can see green, green grass with yellow flowers everywhere

I see warm daylight; it is neither morning nor afternoon

The bright daylight wasn’t too hot to cause me to perspires

It is like warm love given to me, just like a mother hugging a child

Such is the sense of peace, quietness and serenity where many desire to visit and experience

Behold, not far away at a distance I see a huge tree, there is no one under it

I am enjoying peace; warm love and I don’t find the need to go under the tree

Oh Lord Jesus, thank you for bringing me here

I longed to visit this place again, where there is no worldliness to worry about.

Added note 28th Oct 2008

Psalms 23:2 “He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters.” Praise the Lord, this message revealed to me by Spiritual Daughter. Thus, this place of green pastures and still water does run behind the tree in backyard of Heaven. Hallelujah!


In any church service or Cell Group Meeting, there ought to have people going there for the wrong purpose. Some go there for the sake of recording attendant. Some go there for the purpose of getting to know girl. Both cases are going there for the WRONG selfish purposes. It is better for the person to stay at home and gives prayer to our Lord Jesus for forgiveness. Going to Church Service or Cell Group meeting should be for oneself commitment to Our Lord Jesus for Prayer, learning and Fellowshipping.

Why it is wrong to go after a Girl in Church Service or Cell Group Meeting?

Mattew 5:27 “Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery”

Mattew 5:28 “But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.”

Some people may say that this is a preventive measure. For all that we already knew, many adultery cases started from the thought within the offender. He lusts for the woman. He has desire for her. And while this desire dwell within a
person’s mind, the wildest and lustful imagination starts from within his sinful mind and eventually it build up to the level where the individual takes action to take advantage of the woman he likes. In the first place, if there was no lust, ie. there

was no looking at a woman and lust after her, then wrongful intention to possess her, adultery, molest or rape would not have taken place. So, the individual who is to attend Church or Cell Group meeting for the purpose of finding love mate is putting SELF on top of our Lord Jesus and this person will not be focusing on Biblical learning value. He is completely distracted in trying to achieve his purpose of coming to the meeting. He will be Jealous, Disappointed, Bittered and even resort to doing things that is not in accordance with Christian Cultural value to try to get his wants.

So friends, come to the Church Service or Cell Group Meeting with a Pure Clean Mind, ie for only one Purpose: –

“To worship God, our Lord Jesus only!” Focus on Lord Jesus Christ only and all Good things will cometh unto you.

Pray that your state of Mind, your Soul will be brought to the place of Sanctuary, where everyone is equal, everyone is neither marry nor are given in marriage, but like angels in heaven, all come together for the sole purpose of worshipping God our Lord Jesus. Amen, Hallelujah !

Mark 12:25 “For when they shall rise from the dead, they neither marry, nor are given in marriage; but are as the angels which are in heaven.”

Note: “For those with lustful thoughts, they should pray for removal of these “lusts” by confession to Our Lord Jesus, even days before attending Church or Cell Group Meeting.”

Mark 10:14 “But when Jesus saw it, he was much displeased, and said unto them, suffer the little children to come unto me, and forbid them not: for of such is the kingdom of God.”

Mark 10:15 “Verily I say unto you, Whosoever shall not receive the kingdom of God as a little child, he shall not enter therein.”

Unless onself is as humble as little children, he cannot enter the Kingdom of Heaven. On the same token, this lustful thoughts is definitely from the Selfish SELF, unless the individual can humble himself down to the level of little children, he can never hear the Voice from God, our Lord Jesus. He is so “NOISY” within himself, complaining and Self-pitying. The humble child has great desire to learn and to grow spiritually, has no interest in Selfish worldly desires. He has his heart wholly obedient and listen intently to his Father, God, Our Lord Jesus.

I asked in prayer:
“Father, God, Our Lord Jesus. Why use the Adultery example in Matt 5:27, as it does not apply to other wrong reasons that christian attend church or cell group meeting?” Thus our Lord replied me patiently, “Understand the Symbolic meaning of THE WOMAN”
From here I had communion with the Holy Spirit and here is the answer birthed by my Wonderful Partner:-
Woman represents:-
– lust of fornication
– lust to commit sins
– lust for Authority (Current world, more woman are in Power, President, etc)
– distraction away from Jesus
– Weakening
– Falsification of truth (Applying heavy makeup to cover true self)
– Lust for making money (Materialism)